I stumbled upon this video by Sarah Kay and Phil Kaye called “When Love Arrives” which differentiates the love we create and the love we don’t anticipate. They made really good points such as how love isn’t perfect and how love may come at a different time. But when love does arrive, be thankful for it, even though at some point it leaves. Appreciate every moment because sometimes, there won’t be more. Learn to love the little things even though it’s not in your check list of your ideal partner. Smile with them. Laugh a lot with them. Cry with them. Dance with them. And most of all, cherish them.